On healing by slowing down.

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I love this piece by The Optimist Daily. I spent much of my summer out in the wilds of Wyoming, far away from screens and phones, where the body and mind can unwind, slow down and and rejuvenate. Autumn is arriving and it's time to return to the work of the world. But slowly, gently, with a greater tenderness, and a much slower pace.

An excerpt from The Optimist Daily:

"In making decisions, attending meetings and making plans, I keep discovering how important it is not to succumb to the temptation to hurry. I continually notice, in myself and others, the tendency to say 'here, let me handle that': wham, bam, down to work and get it done. In my experience, that approach produces new results that look suspiciously like the old ones. For something truly novel to occur, we need to slow down.

We don’t know what new thing will reveal itself to us and through us. We can only recognize it as something that sounds, feels or looks different from what we ­already know. It requires attentiveness—and often courage—to speak from a place you don’t yet fully understand, to be open to what others put forward. It requires alertness and a receptive attitude to pause a conversation when you’ve heard something that sounds new or you have an idea you can’t quite yet put a name to. If we want to create something new, we must also create the space within which it can grow and present itself. If the space between us is filled with opinions—or even just good intentions—it’s too full for ­innovation to take root.

In many groups, it takes a change of collective habit to explore things slowly together. You must be able to listen. And to listen, you have to silence the noise inside your head. That’s why it’s a good habit to take time before a meeting to check in, even if there are only two of you. Your check-in question might be, 'What’s going on with you that might affect this meeting?' After a short silence in which each attendee focuses attention on their inner space, they share their answers in turn. Each person describes what they’re preoccupied by, without reaction from the others. In this way, participants ground themselves in the present and create a circle that encloses the shared goal for the meeting. It also activates the ability to listen, both to what’s going on inside yourself and to others.

Sharing your inner world creates a sense of connection. It nurtures trust and reveals that every reality is actually a perspective. In that minute of silence, each person also realigns with the common goal, which in turn receives a stronger focus. The check-in is one of the most efficient ways to start a meeting in my book. The best way to begin the minute of silence is by sounding a singing bowl, gong or bell. That marks your shared entry into a sacred space, where each person is prepared to contribute to the collective goal.

To nurture budding innovation, we must change the habits that rule our interactions. To heal the world, we must reshape our public ­decision-making and planning."

Come in soon. Slow down. Sip some tea. Check in with your body. It's there waiting for you. 

Join Annie for a Panchakarma Detox Retreat in India

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A life-changing healing retreat

You are invited to join Annie King on her journey to the Aditya Ayurvedic Clinic. We will travel to southern India for a 28-day retreat to receive the ancient Ayurvedic detox called Panchakarma.

Over the course of your treatment, you will be assessed by Drs. P. Sathyanarayanan and Suma Sathyanarayanan at the Aditya Ayurvedic Clinic. You will be prescribed specific herbal medications to balance your doshas, and will receive Ayurvedic herbal treatments that address your unique condition. You will have the opportunity for daily consultations with your doctors regarding Ayurveda in general, your specific health needs, and the appropriate Ayurvedic treatments for you.

You will also receive daily Ayurvedic treatments tailored to your individual needs. These treatments may include: medicated oil massage of entire body (abhyanga), oil poured in a steady stream over the forehead (shirodhara), warm herbal infused water, oil or milk poured in a specific pattern over the entire body for 30-40 minutes (dhara), herbal steam treatments, and many others.

Typical daily schedule:

6am:  Awake to the music of local Hindu and Muslim temples
One of the staff members will bring your morning medicine (tailored to your constitution and specific health concerns, made on-site according to traditional Ayurvedic recipes).

6:30am:  Morning Yoga Practice with Annie
This will involve gentle, breath focused, meditative yoga where we will be mostly seated or lying prone. We will slowly open and unwind the body.

8 am:  Breakfast  
A delicious traditional Keralan breakfast of dosas and idlies with a mild curry will be brought to your doorstep each morning. These meals are made to give your body the nutrition it needs while balancing the doshas and giving your digestive system a rest.

9am-1pm:  Treatment
This is the portion of the day when most people will receive Ayurvedic treatment tailored to individual needs,

1pm:  Lunch
A traditional Keralan lunch of red rice and several different delicious curries followed by buttermilk.

3-5pm:  Personal Time
You will be encouraged to rest, to take time for contemplation, meditation, or prayer, to enjoy walks in the surrounding nature, and to write, draw, read, daydream, and sleep. 

5-7pm:  Evening yoga session with Annie
We will do a more active yoga practice at this time, focusing on standing and seated poses with emphasis on breathing and alignment. Students are encouraged to go at their own pace, and participation is always optional.

7pm:   Dinner  
A traditional south Indian meal of doshas and curry along with a small salad.

Please note that full Ayurvedic Panchakarma takes at least 28 days.

Dates and Prices:

Annie will depart from Salt Lake City, Utah January 6 and return February 7, 2019.  Flights from Utah to Kochi (Cochin), India range from $800 to $1,700 depending on the airline you fly with and when you make your reservation. Currently, flights on Emirates Air from Los Angeles, Seattle or Chicago to Kochi for January are running about $1,400. The cost for your stay at Aditya is approximately $60 dollars a day (depending on the exchange rate). A 28-day stay is approximately $1,700.  Annie usually factors in a tip of $300, bringing the total cost to the clinic to $2,000. This cost covers your lodging, your food, your consultations with the doctors, and all your Ayurvedic treatments.

Annie’s rate as your scout leader is $200. She will make your reservation at the clinic and be your concierge while in India to help facilitate your stay. 

Annie will also offer twice-daily, two-hour yoga instruction for $35 a class. She will also offer Craniosacral Therapy for $150 for a 90-minute session or $200 for a 120-minute session.

Please contact Annie King to make a reservation at: annieking.thestillpoint@gmail.com.

 

 

On aging ...

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Since my Father passed through the veils last February, I've been thinking about growing older. I'm dancing down this path, with as much grace as I can muster. Two of my favorite authors, Henry Miller and Bertrand Russell, have wise words to share on the subject:

"If you can fall in love again and again,” Henry Miller wrote as he contemplated the measure of a life well lived on the precipice of turning eighty, “if you can forgive as well as forget, if you can keep from growing sour, surly, bitter and cynical… you’ve got it half licked.”

And ... 

"Make your interests gradually wider and more impersonal, until bit by bit the walls of the ego recede, and your life becomes increasingly merged in the universal life. An individual human existence should be like a river — small at first, narrowly contained within its banks, and rushing passionately past rocks and over waterfalls. Gradually the river grows wider, the banks recede, the waters flow more quietly, and in the end, without any visible break, they become merged in the sea, and painlessly lose their individual being," Bertrand Russell wrote in a short essay titled "How to Grow Old" in his book "Portraits from Memory and Other Essays," penned when he was 81.

Our bodies are like trusty vehicles. And regular maintenance of our body(/vehicle) supports the aging process. The root of all disease is stress—and CST calms the nervous system and quiets the mind. Feel free to come lie down on my table.

A lot of value in a little alone time

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One reason Craniosacral Therapy treatment is so effective and helpful: we reboot bodies overstimulated by screen time, jam-packed schedules, and always-on demands. The effects of this quiet, nurturing time are wonderful: my clients emerge feeling rested, recharged, and clear-minded. Stresses fall away. All as a result of gentle, quiet time on my table. (The actual CST treatment itself only magnifies the benefits, of course!) 

That's why this article resonated so deeply: titled "Why we owe it to yourselves to spend quiet alone time every day," you can read it here. The author thoughtfully argues that we're going substantial damage to our minds by losing the habit of slowing down and reflecting alone. 

"Somehow, we need to create a new habit of mind, as individuals and as a society. We need a mental attitude that values and protects stillness, privacy, solitude, slowness, personal reflection; that honors the inner self; that allows each of us to wander about without schedule within our own minds," says author Alan Lightman. 

I suggest to all my clients that they consider a technology free Sunday once a month perhaps. Research shows that the rise in adrenal fatigue in the general population is directly related to the cell phone. It takes about twenty minutes to refocus after an interruption by our phone and this same amount of time for the nervous system to return to a relaxed state after the stimulus of the sound of the phone ring. Its just like what happens to a deer eating in the forest and it hears something step on a twig. It goes into hyper alert for a minute, which is just what our nervous systems do at the sound of our devices pinging us and it takes a while to come back to a calm state. If we turn off our phones and only turn them on when we need to make a call, return our messages, and turn the phone off again, our bodies and nervous systems would calm down significantly. A regular practice of yoga and meditation facilitates this process as well. So does regular Craniosacral Therapy.

Give the article a read and let me know what you think in the comments below—or as we begin your next restorative session on my table. 

 

 

 

The anxiety-reducing, health-enhancing power of breathwork

When we're really stressed or upset, people instinctively tell us, "Just breathe." 

And, that instinct is correct. Breathwork, in fact, is a wonderful way to mitigate the constant stress, overstimulation, anxiety, and intensity in the world swirling around us. Pausing to take a measured breath and really pay attention to it (a great way to re-center and get present) takes us out of the swirl. In fact, as Dr. Andrew Weil says, a regular breathwork practice is a healing tonic. 

He's written extensively on the subject and seen this simple breathing exercise transform patients' lives by reducing stress, anxiety, depression, and boosting overall wellbeing. (Check out one of his posts about it here.)

Coming in for a craniosacral therapy appointment with me is a great big dose of anxiety-busting, nervous-system-rebooting, relaxation with lasting therapeutic benefits. But we all need an everyday practice too, which is why I love Dr. Weil's recommendations so much. 

 

Onward through the fog

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This time of year, spring is juuuuuuust on the cusp of the horizon. Till then, the skies have been a bit sullen, and the plants haven't quite started to peek out yet. Awakening, or the inevitability of it, hangs on the air, but for many of us, these in-between seasons are when depression seeps in and finds us. 

I loved this piece from Brain PIckings, "Having it Out with Melancholy." 

“The gray drizzle of horror induced by depression takes on the quality of physical pain,” William Styron wrote in what remains the most gripping account of living with depression. As time pools that gray drizzle into an ocean of anguish, we begin to lose sight of the other shore — but there is, always, an other shore. 

As we navigate this difficult time of year, it does help to remember there is another shore on the other side. And, as always, I'm here to help ... just one Craniosacral Therapy session can be enough of a reboot for our nervous system that we can shake the cobwebs off a bit and feel calmed yet reinvigorated. 

There is light coming. I promise.

 

On sitting: the things we don't think about

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Look at how the bottom of the spine joins with the pelvis. Question: What changes to that relationship when the weight bearing changes from going through your hips (and ultimately to the ground via your feet) to going through your sit bones into your chair? 

Answer: Not much! You'll notice that both the hip joints and the sit bones are below the sacral-iliac joint--which is where the base of the spine, the sacrum, fuses with the pelvis.

As far as your spine is concerned sitting and standing is pretty much the same thingso why do you sit so differently from the way you stand? One reason is that you may simply not be aware that your sit bones are there to be sat on, or "stood" on.  It's common to see people using their coccyx, or tail-bone, to be the point of contact with the chair which causes the pelvis to tip backwards and rounding the lower back, hence the lower back pain many eventually suffer from sitting in this way. You can try pretending to have a tail and always make sure that imaginary "tail" is BEHIND you when you sit.

The surface that you sit on is also a huge contributing factor in how you sit, but as long as it is flat and firm, it will do. My motto is "if you can stand on it, you can sit on it"

This is why sofas are so hard to sit on well. Try standing on your sofa and you'll soon find how hard it is to feel balanced. With your sit bones as your "feet" it is no wonder that sitting on a sofa is hard to do well, and you give up by collapsing into it. 

Another reason is that the act of sitting is incorrectly associated with relaxing. Sure, it's more relaxing for the legs and hips, but as far as your torso/spine is concerned, sitting is as equally dynamic as standing. Even the word "relax" seems to be misunderstood. I'm often heard saying during lessons, "That's not relaxing, that's collapsing!"  It is perfectly possible to relax into a balanced posture, whether sitting or standing, so that our bones support our weight. Yes, the postural muscles will still be working, but think of them as having tone rather than tension. 

How we use our bodies for the mundane things we do in our lives totally and completely affects our pain levels, which in the long term affects how we age.

Breaking through

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"The daily routine of most adults is so heavy and artificial that we are closed off to much of the world. We have to do this in order to get our work done. I think one purpose of art is to get us out of those routines. When we hear music or poetry or stories, the world opens up again. We’re drawn in — or out — and the windows of our perception are cleansed, as William Blake said. The same thing can happen when we’re around young children or adults who have unlearned those habits of shutting the world out."  - Ursula Le Guin

The world and our bodies open up in a similar way when we get regular and consistent bodywork. Cranial Sacral Therapy in particular supports  the nervous system to lengthen and reset so it can return to a place of equanimity. 

On fertile solitude

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As I've processed some big transitions this winter (love, loss, grief, death, new beginnings, and fresh affirmations), solitude has been a beautiful grounding tool. A piece by psychoanalyst Adam Phillips struck a deep chord within. 

"A fertile solitude is a benign forgetting of the body that takes care of itself… A productive solitude, the solitude in which what could never have been anticipated appears, is linked with a quality of attention." 

I'm grateful for everything that increases my presence, draws me in to process, and lets the body be. 

 

 

 

Are we in our bodies, or are we our bodies?

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"Who I am is certainly part of how I look and vice versa. I want to know where I begin and end, what size I am, and what suits me… I am not 'in' this body, I am this body. Waist or no waist.

But all the same, there’s something about me that doesn’t change, hasn’t changed, through all the remarkable, exciting, alarming, and disappointing transformations my body has gone through. There is a person there who isn’t only what she looks like, and to find her and know her I have to look through, look in, look deep. Not only in space, but in time. ... 

There’s the ideal beauty of youth and health, which never really changes, and is always true. There’s the ideal beauty of movie stars and advertising models, the beauty-game ideal, which changes its rules all the time and from place to place, and is never entirely true. And there’s an ideal beauty that is harder to define or understand, because it occurs not just in the body but where the body and the spirit meet and define each other. 

In a sentiment that calls Rilke to mind, 'I am not one of those who neglect the body in order to make of it a sacrificial offering for the soul,' he memorably wrote, 'since my soul would thoroughly dislike being served in such a fashion.'"

- Ursula Le Guin

How to have a magical day

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We've all heard about studies showing that our brains need breaks from stimulation and screen time to stay creative and happy. 

I advocate for this all the time--in what I tell my clients and in the treatments I provide, calming and resetting our overstimulated nerves through Craniosacral Therapy sessions. But rarely do you see this idea illustrated and told so beautifully as it is in this new children's book. 

You can get a peek of the book, titled a Magical Do-Nothing Day, here:
https://www.brainpickings.org/2017/12/13/on-a-magical-do-nothing-day/

Let's all make a pledge to ourselves and to our bodies and spirits that, as this year winds down, we'll take more moments to experience stimulation as nature intended, not as technology enforces. More snowshoe steps, more ski turns, more miles on the trails, and more time watching the clouds go by. There's nothing more enlivening. 

With love,

Annie

How our emotions physically shape our reality

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A study I recently read made a profound impact on me. Its conclusion: that our stress levels, emotions, and intentions can literally change our DNA.

The ramifications are enormous. And they underscore the importance of stress management and conscious living. 

According to the below article on the study: 
“The heart serves as a key access point through which information originating in the higher dimensional structures is coupled into the physical human system (including DNA), and that states of heart coherence generated through experiencing heartfelt positive emotions increase this coupling."

You can read more about the study here: https://www.lifecoachcode.com/2017/02/26/emotion-shapes-reality/

Bottom line: think with intention. Feel with determination. And tend to stress like you're tending to your most critical health needs. 

On suffering and strength

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This week, I read a deeply moving article about trauma and one pathway through it. The experience of coping with trauma can be so incredibly debilitating and isolating. 

In my experience, therapies like Craniosacral Therapy can be a lifeline. The author of the article mentions at one poignant moment that the simple act of being fed by her sister reminded her that she was alive. Sometimes something as simple as gentle, nurturing touch and nourishment can be that thread tying us to the life before and the life ahead. 

https://ideas.ted.com/its-a-myth-that-suffering-makes-you-stronger/

Have a read at the link above. The author has an amazing way with words, which is incredible as so many of us struggle to put into words what aches most within us. 

Dr. Gabor Mate on the nature of addiction

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I wish it were otherwise, but nearly all of us either have or have seen someone in our lives struggle with addiction--we may have even struggled with it ourselves. 

Of course, there's a lot of discussion around addiction and many experts weighing in, most of whom have something helpful to say. But if you've ever had an addict or addiction in your life, you know nothing is simple. There's no clear "a-ha" explanation or solution. The slog through it is inevitably a complex one, even in the best-case scenarios when there's a happy ending to the tale. 

Dr. Gabor Mate wrote one of the most incredible books I've read on this subject: "In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts." It's written with human empathy, spiritual consciousness, and authority. There are many firsthand anecdotes and lessons he's learned from years working with adult addicts in a low-income housing project. 

This article overviews some compelling takeawayas from Mate's writings ... Pick up his book if you get the chance to as well. Anyone who's been touched firsthand or second-hand by addiction will find it moving, inspiring, and clarifying. 

Read the overview here: http://upliftconnect.com/why-were-a-culture-of-addicts/

And find Mate's book on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Realm-Hungry-Ghosts-Encounters-Addiction/dp/155643880X

 

 

 

Study: the effects of Craniosacral Therapy on dementia

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As I tend to my father, who is very advanced in age and is suffering the debilitating effects of dementia, I'm increasingly aware of the importance of oxygenating the brain with exercise and Craniosacral Therapy. 

Cerebral spinal fluid conducts electricity through the brain and recharges the neurotransmitters. And Craniosacral Therapy improves brain function by increasing the flow of cerebral spinal fluid. 

I found the following study very compelling and affirming:

https://www.iahe.com/docs/articles/CSTDementiaArticle.pdf

Have a read--as many of us navigate issues surrounding our aging parents, information like this can only be beneficial. 

With love,

Annie